Yes, sure, everybody gets busy in their bedrooms, or the rest of the house if they feel risque, (we’re talking about your kitchen floor), but all of this is usual, everyday stuff. Our suggestion today is to step it up a notch and add a little sugar and spice to your life, to get a little something nice. Skip the mundane and consider a little PDA – Public Display of Affection. Don’t lie, we know you’ve thought about making love in public – kick milti hai yaar! That’s why, we’re here with a few tips, tricks and hacks to help you out with the ‘doing’, and avoid the ‘getting caught’ part (unless that gives you a different kind of thrill *wink wink*)
Read: 10 Sex Positions For The Adventurous Couple
5 Thrilling Places To Make Love In Public
1. Car
Let’s start with the most basic and obvious choice and something that is used by young adults all over the country. Car sex is the best way to safely kick it up a notch when you’ve just started exploring new things. It’s the first baby step! Just remember to be careful if you’re in the driver’s seat because you don’t want to accidentally hit the horn! There are many things to remember though, so read the following tips carefully before you get busy:
Where Can You Park The Car?
- In the corner of a dark basement
- On an abandoned street with no streetlights
- Dead-end streets
- Any off-road place with a scenic view
What Positions Are Comfortable For Car Sex?
- Classic Cowgirl
- Reverse Cowgirl
- Doggy Style
- The Spider
2. Trial Room
Dressing rooms in malls are another great private place to get a little intimate in public. The only thing you need to remember is to be silent. Since there will be other shoppers trying on clothes right in the next stall, it might be easy to get caught if you get a little noisy. Try to find stall doors that go all the way to the floor, so that nobody can see even your legs, and carry tissues or wet wipes to clean up after yourself. Remember to be silent, but other than that, go crazy!
What Positions Are Comfortable?
- Oral Sex – just get down on your knees.
- The Ballet Dancer
- Upstanding Citizen
- Standing Doggy
- Standing Spoon
3. Airplane
I’m sure you’ve heard of the mile-high club. With these tips, you can proudly join the club! Even though this one is a slightly risky idea, it’s extremely exciting.
How To Have Airplane Sex?
1) Washroom
Sneaking in and out of an airplane washroom together is tough, and needs to be handled very carefully. Since there is very little space in there, you’ll need to get creative. Try the sitting on the closed seat, Standing Doggy Style, Stand-And-Carry, or the Three-Legged Dog
2) In Your Seat:
There are specific steps to do this, and you need to be extremely careful. And silent.
- Step 1: Book a long, really late-night flight that’s more likely to be empty. For you and your partner, book the window and aisle seat, so that you have more chances for the middle seat to be left empty.
- Step 2: Wait until the in-flight meal is over and they dim the lights. Most of the other passengers will mostly sleep, and even the crew might stop walking around.
- Step 3: Put up the seat dividers, take out a blanket that you’ve carried from home, and snuggle under it. Then, slowly, silently and carefully, you can go about your business. Opt for something easy, like 2nd base (quick handjob or fingering)
- Step 4: If you’re feeling extra frisky, both of you can lie down across the three seats, pretending to go to sleep, and try spooning or a side cuddle. You can even give your partner a blowjob, by getting under the blanket.
3) Private First Class Suite
For the top 1% of the crowd, you can get down to business in a business-class suite (come on, it’s in the name itself). You have a chance on any flight where you can lie down or recline in privacy. Whilst many first-class suites have doors and walls, they are not full-height or totally opaque, so you need to be extra sneaky. Pick a time late in the night after meals so that the crew is not walking around, and everybody else is asleep. Just get under a blanket and silently go about your business. Some luxury flights even provide 30 minutes of shower time that you have to book in advance, so use your time wisely in there.
4. Public Washrooms
Another easy and simple way to get freaky in public, use a public washroom. A few things you should remember:
- Make sure the washroom is clean. Nobody wants to do it somewhere dirty or smelly
- Make sure there’s not a waiting line. You wouldn’t want to keep others waiting when they really need to go, so pick a deserted washroom which will make it easier for you to sneak in and out of too.
- You cannot have sex in the stall of a public washroom. You’ll need to find a toilet in a single room and not something that is a room full of stalls and other people. A handicapped stall, though morally wrong, would be better as you’re more likely to not be disturbed.
- Enter and exit separately and slyly. OBVIOUSLY, you cannot walk in or out together, hand-in-hand like you’re roaming in a garden.
- Stick to basic and easy positions like the toilet seat tango or the classic face-to-face.
5. Store Room
An easy and safe place, a janitor’s closet or an office store room is a good place to do it. Many of these places would even have locks for your safety, so you don’t get seen mid-act. If you’re using a janitor’s broom closet, you need to make sure that they’re not nearby, and if you’re planning on doing it in the office store room, you have to ensure that nobody needs anything from the store room. Towards the evening, when work hours are over and people are starting to leave might be a good time to go about your business, or early in the morning.
5 Things To Remember When Doing It In Public:
Here are a few general tips to remember when doing it in public
- Darkness: Remember, darkness is your friend. The darker the better, and avoid setting up shop under direct light, even if it is an abandoned place.
- Clothing: Wear comfortable clothes, that are easy to pull off and put on. A skirt or loose track pants are the best options. Try to avoid clothing that’s too tight, like skinny jeans, or anything that involves tying up.
- Silence: Since you’re in a public place, being silent is very important. Any kind of noise will give you away very easily. Try to channel all your sounds into expressions, which will make it fun for both of you.
- Speed: Unlike at home, speed is quite of the essence here. Every single public escapade needs to be a quickie, and so you have to have sex because you will not have the time to make love. Longer time = more chances of getting caught.
- Clean Up: Wherever you go, whatever you do, make sure you clean up after yourself.
Adding a little adventure to your sex life is exhilarating, but it’s important to prioritise your safety, and it’s extremely important to be discreet. Be aware of your surroundings at all times, use protection, and make sure both the people are consenting and comfortable with the idea. Happy PDA-ing!
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