One thing sexually active people know is that guys love blowjobs. Whether you make it a part of foreplay or climax. And as much as men like receiving it, there have been many such cases where women weren’t as excited about it. If you are here for some research as to how to be better at blowjobs, read on to know 10 sensational tricks.
10 Master Tips For A Satisfying Blowjob
1. Surprise Him And Initiate
Guys usually don’t expect women to start by giving them a blowjob. So this can be a great surprise. You can start when he is asleep by gently rubbing his thigh and then you can touch his penis. Don’t go for it right away because if he senses that someone is coming near him inappropriately and his reflex might be to kick you. You can even surprise him by initiating it when he least expects you to.
2. Show Excitement
First things first, you should never do it if you don’t feel like it because then it will feel like an obligation and these things are never an obligation. So if you are really interested and into giving him a satisfying blowjob, start with making some appreciative noises. Moan a little, add a little touching the thigh or even touch when you are at it. This will lead to him moaning.
3. Use Your Hands Too
Blowjobs seem like a lot of work if you only continue with your mouth. Take breaks in between and use your hands if your mouth is tired. Don’t be afraid that he might lose the erection because of it, that’s hardly ever the case.
4. Focus On The Head
The most sensitive part of the penis is its head. It’s equivalent to a vagina’s clit. Understand this and play with the head as much as possible, especially if it is taking you a lot of time to reach climax. The easiest way to do this is to take the head of the penis in your mouth and use your hands to stimulate the remaining part of it.
5. Seal Your Lips
Just under the frenulum that is the bottom part of the penis you can suck and mimic the motion he likes during intercourse. Use your hand for this and coordinate your lips with it in a rhythmic motion. This can help him reach climax
6. Don’t Forget The Testicles
This might be surprising to some of us but most guys like their testicles touched when they are receiving a blowjob. This is one master tip of all time and you shouldn’t ignore it if you really want him to have a satisfying experience. You can go ahead and cup them the next time y’all are having oral sex as guys find it a good experience. You can tug to his balls just when he’s about to climax for a never-before blowjob experience.
7. Know When He Is Enjoying It
Suppose your guy is quiet and he is not really telling you is he enjoying it or not, in such cases notice his actions. Is he moaning, groaning or even bucking a little? If yes then he is enjoying it and it might not be the smartest move to change what you are doing.
8. Pay Attention To His Breathing
You can tell a man is aroused when he starts breathing faster than he usually does. When he is aroused you can sense his breathing will begin to get deeper and when he is about to reach climax he might start to hold his breath. So you can save your best technique when he starts to hold his breath.
9. Be Super Careful With Teeth
Trust us, you don’t want him to bleed or get hurt when you are giving him a blowjob. So don’t wrap your teeth around the penis this can lead to them getting hurt. But there is an exception to everything and some guys do have a tolerance level to pain. So if your guy has clearly communicated that he enjoys teeth then you can gently glide your teeth on his penis and use tongue right after.
10. Be Prepared For The Climax
Whether you should or shouldn’t swallow semen is completely subjective and a choice of your own. But if you don’t want to swallow, make it clear beforehand. No matter what kind of sexual act you are participating in, communication is key.
These were all the things you should know while going down on your man so that nothing goes down. Remember it’s only fun when your heart is it and you actually enjoy it. Don’t feel obligated to do so and if you aren’t comfortable with any of it, communicate the same to your partner.
