If you’re wondering why your vagina looks sooo different from what you see in porn, there are two main things you need to know, the first being what you see is the vulva, not the vagina.
Vagina VS Vulva
The vagina and vulva refer to different body parts. Your vagina is an internal muscular tube-like organ that connects your vulva to your uterus. It’s the canal where you give birth from, and you cannot see it. Your vulva, on the other hand, comes under external genitalia and this is the part that you can see.
7 Parts Of The Vulva You Should Know
The vulva has many other parts, all of which together form the vulva:
- Mons Pubis: The rounded fatty area over your pubic bone where hair mainly grows.
- Labia Majora: The outer lips of your vulva, which surround and protect the other parts.
- Labia Minora: The inner lips, which are delicate folds of skin within the labia majora.
- Clitoris: A highly sensitive and erectile organ at the top of the vulva, which is mainly responsible for your arousal.
- Vaginal Opening: The opening of the vagina, where it connects to the external body parts.
- Urethral Opening: The opening through which you pee. This is found between your clitoris and vaginal opening.
- Vestibule: The space between your labia minora, which contains the vaginal and urethral openings.
Does Your Vulva Look Normal?
Now, actually, there isn’t any ‘normal’ vulva, because there is more than one type of vulva! Just like how no two snowflakes are exactly the same, every person’s vulva is unique, and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, about any part of it. The symmetry and shape of your vulva depend on the size and shape of your clitoris as well as your labia.
7 Types Of Vulvas
While there aren’t any particular set types of vulvas, these are the 7 most common ones!
1. Clitoris Size
You might have a clitoris that’s smaller and less sensitive than others, or the opposite could be true too. Your clitoris could actually be either the size of a pea or even reach up to the size of your thumb!
2. Pink Vaginas
Absolutely nobody said that all vaginas have to be pink. It could be brown or red too. The colour depends on your skin tone, your hormones, and even the blood flow.
3. Asymmetrical Labia
Your vulva might have lips where one is smaller or bigger than the other, and this is completely normal. Just like how sometimes one of your boobs is bigger than the other.
4. Protuding Outer Labia
If your outer lips are outward, that’s also completely okay.
5. Protuding Inner Labia
It’s normal for your inner lips to be longer too.
6. Small Labia
Your labia might be tucked into your vulva, or covered by your outer vaginal lips.
7. Bigger Inner And Outer Labia
It’s also completely okay if your lips are puffy and protruding, though you might be uncomfortable in thongs.
How To Get Comfortable With Your Vulva
Getting familiar with your vulva is an important aspect of self-awareness, and promotes body positivity and sexual health. Here are some steps to help you become more at ease with your vulva:
1. Educate Yourself
Read about female anatomy, watch educational videos, or consult reliable sources to understand the different parts of the vulva.
2. Use A Mirror
Find a comfortable and private space, use a hand mirror, and explore your vulva visually. Take your time to observe and understand the various structures.
3. Clean Hands
Before touching yourself, make sure your hands are clean to prevent any infections.
4. Touch And Feel
Use your fingers to gently explore the different areas of your vulva, including the labia majora, labia minora, clitoris, and vaginal opening. Notice the different textures and sensations
5. Self-Exploration
While in a relaxed state, explore your vulva to understand what feels good and what doesn’t. This can help you understand how your body responds to things and what you prefer.
6. Masturbation
Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your body and learn about your sexual responses. It also promotes relaxation and reduces your stress levels.
7. Communication
If you have a partner, openly talk about both your bodies and your preferences to enhance your intimacy and understanding of each other.
FAQs About The Vulva
1. What Is A Vulva?
The vulva refers to the external female genitalia, including the mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora, clitoris, vaginal opening, and urethral opening.
2. How Should I Clean My Vulva?
Clean your vulva with warm water and mild, unscented soap. Avoid harsh chemicals or douches, as they can disrupt the natural pH balance and cause infections.
3. Can Vulvas Experience Discomfort Or Pain?
Yes, your vulva can experience discomfort or pain due to various reasons such as infections, irritation, or sexual issues. If you experience persistent discomfort, consult a healthcare provider.
Remember, everyone’s body is different, so what you observe or feel might be different from others. It’s important to embrace your body and its uniqueness and appreciate its functions and pleasures.
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